While your primary relationship can be one of the most profound sources of joy as well as one of the paramount challenges in your life, Leiven’s guidance can help expand your understanding and experience of it as a journey and process of growth that will allow you to

• Form a more meaningful, deeper connection with your partner

• Communicate in more grounded, accepting ways

• Transmute whatever conflicts that do arise into deeper and more expansive love

• Break free of the need to compromise

• Be free from blaming and being blamed by your partner

• Learn tools to work with your triggers

• Clear patterns of unhealthy dependency and unconscious manipulation

• Speak your needs clearly without fear of judgment or blame

• Be more intimate in ways that work for you - not how it’s dramatized in mainstream media

• Elevate how you show up in your primary relationship and thus how you show up in the world
  
  

Leiven embodies the essence of unconditional love, compassionate acceptance and support, vibrant passion, and emotional awareness embedded with healthy boundaries, conscious communication, and the capacity to dive deeply into shadows and challenges that is a foundation for unearthing healing and transformation in any relationship.

As a couple desiring to do the work together, your journey with Leiven is an expedition personalized to meet your unique relationship needs and creates the spaciousness needed for your relationship to unfold as it enriches and expands.

Every session will be tracked and documented, and each one will build upon the foundations and realizations of previous ones. Your journey will evolve and manifest to clearly show you your challenges, both internal and external, to offer you the understandings and resources to meet them as well as to bring to light and celebrate the magic already there, opening deeper appreciation of them and amplifying the ways they can be expressed and experienced.

Through the course of millennia, humanity has configured today’s world and a way of being in it that has predominantly operated by separating, compartmentalizing, objectifying, and exploiting everything within it. As this world reaches its breaking point of being able to support human life upon it, within this prevailing narrative and its systems, more and more are opening to the understanding that we are all connected not merely as humans but with all life, all things.

Unfolding with this blossoming awareness is the realization that our each and every act has an impact on those we are connected to, on the world around us, and for how each of us continues to evolve and grow.

We are awakening to the infinite ways we are deeply and fully in relationship to all things in all ways.

As the ways of objectification and exploitation break down, the lives and voices of those who have been unseen and unheard are rising through the fissures, and, as they are expressed and witnessed, they are opening paths to understandings of how we can be in relationship in new, powerful, healing, and transformative ways. Through it all, we are called upon to meet the challenges in these transitions as we seek to form more meaningful, nourishing, and expansive connections to the evolving world we are in relationship with.

Leiven has experienced and integrated a uniquely expansive life experience for navigating and thriving in these times of critical recalibration.

• Born to and raised by a family of Taiwanese immigrants in the US and having lived long stretches of his life in both countries opens his awareness of cultures far apart in their beliefs and traditions

• Sharing his life with a Beloved who discovered their neurodivergency and gender-fluidity during the course of their relationship opens him to intimate experience of a love which deepens and expands by breaking through conditions, judgments, and expectations

• Intentionally choosing to only be engaged with planning and design projects that are committed to creating spaces that are healing and transformative for people and planet opens him to a dynamic and co-stewarding relationship with the planet and all of its energies and entities

• Engaging in practices of movement, meditation, and breath with an exploratory and integrative approach opens his physical being to an easeful vibrancy that deepens his experience of flow in each and every present moment

• His unfettered, unflinching journey of personal growth opens his expansive capacity to hold space for his own and others’ deepest emotions and challenges from a place of love and compassion without expectation or judgment as well as to guide others in nurturing their own capacity to do so.